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Tuesday
19Jun2007

Swimmin. Lemonade. Life.

Man it is amazing how the day gets away from me sometimes. I so appreciate your patience with me.

We went swimming at Lifetime today. The summer sun beat down, and heat came up in waves from the pavement whenever we were outside (which, I’ll be honest, wasn’t that long, except for the pool). We splashed and played in the water, and Rowen loved it so much she “read” this from her fortune cookie when we went out to Chinese tonight:

“I went swimming. I had fun. I put on a life jacket so I wouldn’t sink. Then daddy came home.” I’d say that pretty much sums up the highlights of the day right there.

But that reminds me, she won the funny today.

Tonight at dinner, the waitress said, “Can I get you something to drink?” And before Jared or I could answer, Rowen (perched in her booster seat) said, in a voice loud and clear, “I will have a… lemonade,” complete with that very adult pause in the middle where you glance at the menu to make sure you have the order right. The waitress then said, without missing a beat, “Is pink lemonade alright?” And Rowen said, “Yes!”

Our dinner tonight was one of those ones where you step back for a minute and realize hey, we’ve rounded a corner here and we’re on to something different than we were just a bit ago. Elliott ate most of his dinner with a spoon. More made it in his mouth than on the floor. Nobody spilled anything or screamed or carried on too loudly. We were a Family, enjoying dinner together, rather than Parents bringing Kids along while they eat. It was very, very cool. I’m cautiously optimistic that Toddlerville won’t be such a bad place after all.

I got home from the airport at about 7 p.m. yesterday, and Jared and the kids were out on the front lawn. They had written “Welcome Home Mama” in large letters on the driveway with two colors of sidewalk chalk. As I drove up, I could see Rowen start toward me, mouthing “Mama!” as she ran. My family. I think it’s actually a privilege and blessing to be away for a bit - it lets me step back, so that when I see them again it’s with fresh eyes and a more grateful heart. I want to protect and shelter this time I have with them - my little kids are getting big before my eyes! It makes my heart catch in my throat just to think about it. That’s what today was about. More celebration. More hugs. More lemonade. More life.

Photoshop Friday (ahem.. Tuesday) will go up tomorrow. This has been one crazy week of travel, sickness, teaching, and trying-to-and-almost-but-not-quite-totally-yet-catching-up.

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Reader Comments (10)

What a wonderful post! I do love to come home and be so thrilled to see my kids and have them so thrilled to see me!

I was in one of your classes at CKU and it was my favorite! You are a great teacher and I'm so excited to try some of your Photoshop Fridays!
June 19, 2007 | Unregistered Commentersusan lyons
heartwarming post :) TFS!
June 19, 2007 | Unregistered CommenterMichelle Filo
"Heartwarming!" Yes, that is just the right word! I love to hear your stories about life at the Spragues! Hugs to you all!
June 19, 2007 | Unregistered CommenterMN Carol
Hi Jessica,

Don't worry, I'm sure we'll enjoy Photoshop Tuesday just as much. I hope you don't feel this 'pressure' on your shoulders during your time spent with your family; remember, Photoshop Friday should be a voluntary job! This means you still feel responsible, but you are allowed a week off every now and then....

June 19, 2007 | Unregistered CommenterMonique
Blessings as you spend time with the family.
Enjoy them.
I'm 17 hrs away from the nephew, so understand time can be
a precious thing. Understanding that PSF is PS-Tuesday...
or, like the previous poster said "an off week" for you.
Hope you are feeling much better.
Hugs from the midwest.
June 19, 2007 | Unregistered CommenterKaylea
Yes it is good to step back, look and appreciate LIFE. That is a really good thing to remember!! My 'little' girl just turned 28 and it truly seems like no more than 10 years max she was 5. :)
June 19, 2007 | Unregistered CommenterBrooke in Oregon
Sweet Jess- as I sit here watching my 2 y.o. streak across the family room, I too am amazed at LIFE. How quickly they go from being so dependent, to being so darn INdependent.

My last class went very well. You have a few more people waiting for your next class registration to begin, and you sold some more Computer Tricks books :)

Hugs!
June 19, 2007 | Unregistered CommenterMolly
That is so sweet. :)
June 19, 2007 | Unregistered CommenterAnia
Jessica, I just love when you said "we are family enjoy dinner together...instead of parents eating dinner with their kids along for the ride." That is how I feel too...it is so important to enjoy these moments with our little ones--while they are little! My DDs are 4 1/2 and 1...and they keep us flying--but it is worth every minute! Hope you are feeling better...I look forward to your photoshop lesson, whenever you get to it.
June 19, 2007 | Unregistered CommenterJulie
Have you heard 'Let them be Little" by Lonestar. Go listen to it! I loved it because it reminded me to enjoy my kiddos when they are young - even though sometimes it is hard. I think time away helps with perspective so much too.
June 21, 2007 | Unregistered CommenterHeather

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